People seek retreats for themselves in the countryside by the seashore, in the hills, and you too have made it your habit to long for that above all else. But this is altogether unphilosophical, when it is possible for you to retreat into yourself whenever you please; for nowhere can one retreat into greater peace or freedom from care than within one’s own soul—
Amidst the chaos and uncertain times we are living in during this global pandemic, I wanted to reflect on some wisdom from Marcus Aurelius that can help us reframe events and shift perspectives.
In this quote Marcus reflects on the notion that despite our external circumstances we can always find solace within.
Many of us seek to escape our day-to-day realities through retreat or travel. Travel can provide us with an opportunity to explore new landscapes, ideas, histories and cultures. Moreover, it offers us a temporary distraction from the ‘rat race’ and daily routines, in which we often operate in auto-pilot mode for.
With the COVID-19 pandemic, much of the world is directed to reside inside, refrain from travel and remain in isolation to stop the spread of the virus. Nonetheless, I think we can use this time as an opportunity to cultivate solitude, and become more acquainted with our inner selves.
Rather than finding peace or tranquility though retreat, Marcus urges us to find it within ourselves. This can be done through living in the present moment, self reflection and contemplation. We can become aware of beauty and intricacies of life that we often ignore because we are too busy to do so. In the horrors of the Holocaust, Anne Frank was able to relish in the simple pleasures that life had to offer at that time. A glance at nature to recharge, find stillness and take a glimpse at the sublime. In her diary she writes,
Once we learn to find contentment within ourselves, in the mundane, we can find it anywhere.
In this last blog post on the philosophy of Stoicism I want to explore 3 practical Stoic techniques that I have found particularly useful for attaining confidence and tranquility of the mind.
on the Vastness of Time and the Universe
If you take a step
back and look at your life from a cosmic perspective you will realize how small
and insignificant you are compared to the enormity of the universe. Consider this – the universe is 13.8 billion
years old. It is estimated that the human species evolved about 200,000
years ago. In the television series Cosmos, Carl Sagan condenses
time in a calendar year to put human history into perspective. The Cosmic Calendar reveals
that January 1 would represent the Big Bang and each minute accounts for 30,000
years. Humans only come into the picture on 10:30 pm on December 31st.
The Stoics taught that
we should look at our lives from a cosmic viewpoint. Modern Stoics called this
exercise ‘The View from
Above.’ Taking this approach will
allow us to escape our internal biases and assess things from an objective standpoint.
How often do we ruminate on petty and trivial
problems? Why do concern ourselves with externals that will soon perish shortly
after we are gone? From this vantage point, our efforts for immortality through
fame, wealth and social status are surely misguided.
It has been said that astronomy is a humbling and character-building experience. There is perhaps no better demonstration of the folly of human conceits than this distant image of our tiny world. To me, it underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly with one another, and to preserve and cherish the pale blue dot, the only home we’ve ever known.”
Looking our lives from this is allows us to put events in perspective. Furthermore, it is not supposed to lead to nihilism but rather the contrary. We can add meaning and purpose to our lives explicitly because we are only here for a short time.
2. Look at Challenges as Opportunities
On the occasion of every accident (event) that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use…… If labor (pain) be presented to you, you will find that it is endurance. If it be abusive words, you will find it to be patience. And if you have been thus formed to the (proper) habit, the appearances will not carry you along with them.
In my last
blog post I spoke about how we always have the opportunity to reframe
events – even in the most dreadful circumstances. In many cases we fail to
learn the lessons we need to if we live a life of ease and comfort. Failure
humbles us. It shows us our blind spots.
It provides us with opportunities to evolve, grow and expand our
This Stoic lesson will allow us to view every challenge we endure as an opportunity. For instance, if you get fired from your job, you can redevelop yourself and learn new skills. This situation will enable you to develop resilience and perseverance, two skills which are essential in a rapidly changing world. Every difficult situation we are placed enables us to overcome challenges and strengthen our will.
3. Memento Mori
You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think
taught that we should always be self-aware of our own mortality. Life is unpredictable, and death lurks around
the corner. Reflecting on this fact is not meant to put us in a state of dread,
but rather humble us. We may not know what the future holds so let us ensure
that we leave nothing behind – live life with abandon.
If you follow
the 24/7 news cycle and are an avid consumer of current events, it is easy to
be filled with a sense of fear and despair. Rising political polarization. Populism.
Climate change. Brexit. Donald Trump. Identity politics, extremism and the
culture wars. The list goes on and on.
can do is help us detach from external events, and help us focus on cultivating
our inner lives. We can not control what happens around us but we always the choice
to change our beliefs and our viewpoint. Regardless of all the noise, tranquillity
is available to us, and Stoicism can help to get us there.
enjoyed this post on Stoicism. The next few posts will be dedicated towards
In this day and age it is far too easy to become addicted to our ego. Through the internet and social media, we long for instant gratification and praise. Consequently, we become consumed by the notifications, the ‘likes’, and the comments as we continually search for validation. We are inclined to boast our feats, our good deeds and accomplishments to others. However, through this, we lose perspective of the original intentions of our actions.
The Stoics looked to nature and assessed how the world natural operates to understand how humans should act. It follows from this that humans are rational and social animals. As human beings, we flourish through our collective efforts in society not in isolation. In fact, the degree in which we are able to cooperate and collaborate to build complex and sophisticated civilizations is uniquely human. This trait sets us apart from other species.
In this quote Marcus Aurelius recommends that we perform good actions not for the sake of praise or adoration, but for there own sake. Selflessly working towards improving the lives of others is what being a human living in a society requires of us. It is in our nature, just as it is in the nature of a bee to make honey or a vine to produce grapes. Therefore, we must not demand recognition or compensation for our good deeds or seek external validation.
In his book The Greatest Generation, Tom Brokaw profiles the lives of World War II Veterans who sacrificed their lives in pursuit of freedom. These soldiers were not motivated by fame or acclaim, but rather fought because it was ‘the right thing to do’. They performed their duty to their country and to their fellow citizens with honour and humility, not with pride.
Humility is not a sign of weakness but
rather a virtue. It demands that an individual be honest about their own
abilities. Furthermore, it requires one to be content with their own self-worth
and refrain from comparing themselves to others.
Follow Marcus Aurelius’ advice and do what is expected from
you, not because you will profit form it, but rather because it is the right
thing to do.